I'm after some advice here...
First I must explain i'm 28, live at home and have a mother who is very anti-Thailand.
Right... I have been in a 2 year relationship with a Thai girl (Obviously) and she is a manager of a company in Bangkok and has her own car/apartment. She comes from a well off family. Infact 2 of her sisters are well off with bank balances of millions of bhat. I don't have much to offer her but she still loves me and she has been at me for months to move out there and spend our lives together, which I want to do. Standing in my way is a mother with a huge hatred for Thai girls and I have been told if I move there I might aswell be dead to her. She only sees Thai girls as the Pattaya type that are only interested in money. I mean this girl from Bangkok makes double what I make in a month so she's definitely not after my money.
I know where the problem may have arisen from. I was in a relationship with a bar girl and she had another customer when I was back home. I understood this as its her living and anyway it turns out the customer was an on/off boyfriend for 2 years and she eventually dumped him and he went crazy, assumed she dumped him for me, found out my name from her and googled MY DAD, rang his work, and told him he is concerned about me as I am sending money to a girl in Thailand. Obviously, trying to eliminate me. Well anyway she is married to the ACTUAL guy who was sending her money now. But after my dad got that call all hell broke loose in my house but they could find no proof of me sending money, as there was none and I even had them call western union to verify. But, it still sticks in her mind and comes up every so often.
So, my question to you is how can I overcome this and move to Thailand and live in happiness for the rest of my life.
I haven't got many friends here, I'm feeling depressed and on my days off work I am just sitting home with nothing to do. I do have a degree so working in Thailand will not be an issue. I just want to find my way and happiness in this life. Why should I be stopped?
I know some of you are probably laughing at this and thinking just say eh... yeah fuck off mam im heading off... But please look at it from the inside ;)
Thanks.