My story is a bit different, but quite the same as most too...
The difference is, I have yet to go to Thailand, but that is happening in 20 days, and I am so ready...
I met Sunny through ThaiLoveLInks, where I have been an off and on paid member for years... She was living in Los Angeles, and I was there frequently on business... Our first date was magical, and we ended up back at my LAX hotel... And didn't leave for two days... What a dream girl, it was so fun to buy her clothes and treat her... Not to mention worship her body... Absolutely perfect...
Shortly after we started dating, I was given the opportunity to move to LA, and I jumped at it...
Sunny had come to LA on a fiance visa, but broke it off with the gent, and was an illegal when I met her... No way to fix it either...
She moved in with me, and we had a ball for a bit... And she was crazy for cock, the most sexual being I have ever known, and I was so thrilled to have her around... She just flat out loved cock... in the car, anytime we went anywhere, she had me out and was playing with me... etc...
I am quite a bit older than her, and I didn't have any illusions that I was becoming a sugar daddy, and I loved every minute of it to start... She even called me daddy, and my handle is from those days... I loved buying her little baby doll dresses, designer handbags, sunglasses, etc... She cost a LOT less than the wife I used to have... Still paying for that, lol!!!
I told her that I understood that she might want to be with a younger guy, and party (I don't drink, and prefer a quieter life most of the time), and being the very open minded guy I am, I also told her it was ok if she kept seeing the boyfriend she had from before me, so long as she didn't lie to me... I have always felt that if someone wants to fuck around, that it is possible to do so and still maintain a healthy relationship, and I wanted the same freedom, so we agreed to this... She would go off to the other end of town every 4 weeks or so, and have her fun, then come back...
The problems began when she got her blackberry (I paid for it, of course) and the damn text message beeps started going off 100 times a day... I still have a visceral reaction to that tone when I hear it... haha.
Having her around, and having the best sex of my life made me willing to keep trying to be ok with the reality of her and all her goings on, but it got progressively more difficult, as it became obvious that she was carrying on digital relationships with about 8-10 guys, and more than just one of them were making plans to visit LA just to see her... I kept catching her at lies, she was very bad at it... As it was my only rule (no fucking lying!), we started having fights, and breaking up, and she would move out... Then we would make up, she would promise to curb her behavior, swear she really loved me etc etc, we'd have great make up sex, and we would start all over again... But she was unable to stop her behavior, didn't want to stop, whatever, and finally I threw her out for the last time... My male ego had reached its limit... The last fight ended quite badly, and we have not spoken since...
So I have experienced the infamous Thai Girl anger, and I have learned a lot since then...
I don't regret throwing her out, and it has been about four years... But I still think of her fondly, and I still miss the heck out of the good times... She swore she was never a bargirl in Thailand, but in the last four years I have learned a LOT about this whole thing, and if she wasn't a bargirl before she came over, she sure could have been, and I think she was.... which is fine with me... I had no illusions about "happily ever after" with her at the time, but I would have loved it if we could have stretched it out a bit longer... But I was just her ATM...
I was also sending money home to her folks, and was glad to do it... She was worth every dollar I spent, and more...
I am coming to Pattaya for fun, do NOT want to fall in love and become a sucker, er, sponsor, it seems I have already learned that lesson without having the long plane ride, eh?
It's funny tho, I just started chatting late last night with a doll at ThaiLoveLinks from Chonburi, and her first reply to my emailed invitation to be my playmate on my visit had been "oh, I am not THAT kind of girl, so have fun, and bring your own condoms cause the Thai ones are too small for farangs I hear"... Over the last week we continued to exchange a few emails, and we had a great chat last night that got pretty wild... she is very open and adventurous...
While describing my Pattaya plans, she told me "oh, you don't have to pay to fuck me, I'm rich"... she knows I am coming to Pattaya to fuck bargirls, and we still might meet... I understand a little about Thai culture and their attitude towards sex... I love it!!! Before any of this had developed, I had already booked my room for 4 nights, and left the rest of my 9 day itinerary open so I can choose to go elsewhere...
I have invited her to join me in Pattaya if she wants, (she's bi curious), and offered to relocate after my 4 nights nearer to her... Nothing certain yet, and I left with the last comment last night, "up to you dear!" Probably won't turn out to be anything, but it is such fun!!! Anticipation is half the fun at least!!!
So my adventure is beginning, and I am thrilled to be coming to Thailand finally! I arrive Sept 17th, and the countdown clock in my head is already in minutes, haha!
Cheers all!
The difference is, I have yet to go to Thailand, but that is happening in 20 days, and I am so ready...
I met Sunny through ThaiLoveLInks, where I have been an off and on paid member for years... She was living in Los Angeles, and I was there frequently on business... Our first date was magical, and we ended up back at my LAX hotel... And didn't leave for two days... What a dream girl, it was so fun to buy her clothes and treat her... Not to mention worship her body... Absolutely perfect...
Shortly after we started dating, I was given the opportunity to move to LA, and I jumped at it...
Sunny had come to LA on a fiance visa, but broke it off with the gent, and was an illegal when I met her... No way to fix it either...
She moved in with me, and we had a ball for a bit... And she was crazy for cock, the most sexual being I have ever known, and I was so thrilled to have her around... She just flat out loved cock... in the car, anytime we went anywhere, she had me out and was playing with me... etc...
I am quite a bit older than her, and I didn't have any illusions that I was becoming a sugar daddy, and I loved every minute of it to start... She even called me daddy, and my handle is from those days... I loved buying her little baby doll dresses, designer handbags, sunglasses, etc... She cost a LOT less than the wife I used to have... Still paying for that, lol!!!
I told her that I understood that she might want to be with a younger guy, and party (I don't drink, and prefer a quieter life most of the time), and being the very open minded guy I am, I also told her it was ok if she kept seeing the boyfriend she had from before me, so long as she didn't lie to me... I have always felt that if someone wants to fuck around, that it is possible to do so and still maintain a healthy relationship, and I wanted the same freedom, so we agreed to this... She would go off to the other end of town every 4 weeks or so, and have her fun, then come back...
The problems began when she got her blackberry (I paid for it, of course) and the damn text message beeps started going off 100 times a day... I still have a visceral reaction to that tone when I hear it... haha.
Having her around, and having the best sex of my life made me willing to keep trying to be ok with the reality of her and all her goings on, but it got progressively more difficult, as it became obvious that she was carrying on digital relationships with about 8-10 guys, and more than just one of them were making plans to visit LA just to see her... I kept catching her at lies, she was very bad at it... As it was my only rule (no fucking lying!), we started having fights, and breaking up, and she would move out... Then we would make up, she would promise to curb her behavior, swear she really loved me etc etc, we'd have great make up sex, and we would start all over again... But she was unable to stop her behavior, didn't want to stop, whatever, and finally I threw her out for the last time... My male ego had reached its limit... The last fight ended quite badly, and we have not spoken since...
So I have experienced the infamous Thai Girl anger, and I have learned a lot since then...
I don't regret throwing her out, and it has been about four years... But I still think of her fondly, and I still miss the heck out of the good times... She swore she was never a bargirl in Thailand, but in the last four years I have learned a LOT about this whole thing, and if she wasn't a bargirl before she came over, she sure could have been, and I think she was.... which is fine with me... I had no illusions about "happily ever after" with her at the time, but I would have loved it if we could have stretched it out a bit longer... But I was just her ATM...
I was also sending money home to her folks, and was glad to do it... She was worth every dollar I spent, and more...
I am coming to Pattaya for fun, do NOT want to fall in love and become a sucker, er, sponsor, it seems I have already learned that lesson without having the long plane ride, eh?
It's funny tho, I just started chatting late last night with a doll at ThaiLoveLinks from Chonburi, and her first reply to my emailed invitation to be my playmate on my visit had been "oh, I am not THAT kind of girl, so have fun, and bring your own condoms cause the Thai ones are too small for farangs I hear"... Over the last week we continued to exchange a few emails, and we had a great chat last night that got pretty wild... she is very open and adventurous...
While describing my Pattaya plans, she told me "oh, you don't have to pay to fuck me, I'm rich"... she knows I am coming to Pattaya to fuck bargirls, and we still might meet... I understand a little about Thai culture and their attitude towards sex... I love it!!! Before any of this had developed, I had already booked my room for 4 nights, and left the rest of my 9 day itinerary open so I can choose to go elsewhere...
I have invited her to join me in Pattaya if she wants, (she's bi curious), and offered to relocate after my 4 nights nearer to her... Nothing certain yet, and I left with the last comment last night, "up to you dear!" Probably won't turn out to be anything, but it is such fun!!! Anticipation is half the fun at least!!!
So my adventure is beginning, and I am thrilled to be coming to Thailand finally! I arrive Sept 17th, and the countdown clock in my head is already in minutes, haha!
Cheers all!