Alright guys I am just a newbie here and this post will probably reflect that.
I met a girl at Spanky's at Nana Plaza a few days before leaving there and although used to laugh at the idea of guys becoming besotted with a girl found myself in that situation.
I was in a good mood after spending 2 weeks between Bangkok, Chiang mai and Phuket and had finally returned to Bangkok for my last 4 day before setting off back Home.
I went to Spanky's and had a great time there I took my time as usual looking at the talent and was sat right at the stage.
One girl caught my eye and was particulaly good dancer.
She kept smiling when our eyes crossed and I decided after a while to ask the mamasan there to tell her to sit with me.
I got her a lady drink and we got on well.
We sat and watched the show and had a good time.
I decided to take her long time and we headed off to the hotel, she said she need a few things from 7/11 so I let her go and she left her belongings in the room.
She returned after 5 min and we had an amazing night very passionate.
The next day she said she had to leave early in the morning because she had to go check on her kid who was being looked after by her sister.
She is only 21 btw.
She left her number and took mine.
I left it at that, however later on that afternoon she got back to me asking what I was up to that evening... and when I said I had no plans yet she asked if it would be alright to see me.
I said ok and she agreed to come to my hotel after work, she came to to the hotel and suggested we go to a club in Asoke where a lot of her friends work. We had a wild time and got back to the hotel in the early morning, had breakfast and I spent the next 3 days with her having a great time, she asked for no money the whole time. She actually was looking after me spending wildly when I was drunk.
On my last night I took her shopping and got her some things and she accompanied me to the airport and saw me off.
I was annoyed that she got under my skin but she did.
The next few days back home I really missed her but initiated no conversations she always did and we have been talking everyday since.
She never lied about being with a customer and always told me if she was and never hid her phone however today I had started getting over her reading all the advice here in the forum and told her next time I come she should not be jealous if I was to see other girls.
She went nuts lol and said that she works in a bar not like me and that she has to do what she does for money and I was not in the same situation.
I said I was planning to go to patts next time I went and she asked who would come with me and if she could join.
I ignored that and she started saying if I went to Patts I would forget her. She pleaded saying that by the time I come next time I come she would probably not be working in a bar no more, why I was being like this etc...
I want to know what the experience BM's here have to say about this situation.
Any help appreciated, I do not want to be limited by 1 girl I have only been to LOS once and through this forum I know there is much more to be explored the only thing confusing me a bit about her is she never seems to lie and is always upfront about anything she is doing even it is that she is with a customer.
Cheers guys,
Max Blue