First up, I will say that I have never been a big fan of paying for sex. I haven't done it to this day, but that's not to say I won't do it. Anyway, I live in Bangkok. I go out often, and regularly take home Thai girls. I don't go to clubs frequented by working girls etc, but when I do come across one, she tells me, either straight up or after talking for a while, that she's a working girl. A friend of mine told me that I would never get laid for free in Pattaya. He said that 99% of the girls in bars are prostitutes.
Well, on my first trip to Pattaya, myself and my brother went out for a usual night out. We ended up in Marine. I started talking to a girl, and before I knew it we were on her motorbike on the way back to my hotel. As we reached the hotel, I figured it would be best if I got another room, since I was sharing a room with my brother. I didn't have a condom, so I tell her to wait, and run over to my hotel room. My brother has the key - damnit. Anyway, I knock on the door, and my brother is inside... with a girl. Anyway, I grab a few condoms and head back over to the room. Things happen, blah blah blah and I wake up with a bad hangover. We have to check out so the girl helps me over to my hotel room, and tucks me into bed. She says "Can I have some money for fuel please?", I say "Sure, how much?" to which she responds "100 baht." I hand over the 100 baht, she gives me a kiss and writes down her number, and leaves.
I ask my brother where his girl was. He says he didn't feel like having her stay over as all of our things were in the room, so he said he walked her home earlier that morning. I ask him if he paid. No. I ask him if the asked for money, and he says no. I look through the pictures from the previous night on the camera and came across a few naked shots of his girl. Fair play.
I've been with 4 girls in total in Pattaya. One asked for money for fuel. One asked for 300 baht taxi money, and two didn't ask for money at all. They just left their number. One girl wrote "Don't forget me".
Anyway, this is getting long. I'm just wondering, after reading through the threads on this forum... did I just happen to stumble across the non-working girls or did those girls expect to be paid but were too shy to ask? I have to admit, I was completely naive with regards to how it all works. In Bangkok, they tell me if they want money, and I walk away and find someone else. I sometimes ask of course, if I suspect they might be. I may be moving to Pattaya in June so some advice from you guys would be appreciated. The last thing I'd want is to go home with a girl... have her leave without paying her, without her saying anything, then seeing her out and thinking that I'm a cheapskate.
They were all very fun and friendly, and I never suspected for one minute than any of them might have been working girls. Your thoughts?